5 signs you’re ready to be a relationship after being single for so long

There’s really never a time when time when people in relationships do not bring their love stories to consciousness and their romantic activities flashed right in our faces.

5 signs you’re ready to be a relationship after being single for so long (Credit - Ebony)
5 signs you’re ready to be a relationship after being single for so long (Credit – Ebony)

Especially on social media where the tension and everything seems to be double, it can really be difficult for single people to cope sometimes. You may be forced into thinking you are ready when you actually aren’t.

On the flipside, that could just be a reminder you need to actually get back into the dating game again.

Even if your past relationships ended badly, love may just be around the corner [Credit - Techmoran]

Even if your past relationships ended badly, love may just be around the corner [Credit – Techmoran]

If you have been single for a long time, these are signs that may signal to you that it is time to start dating again

1. You have moved on

If your last relationship ended badly and broke your heart in so many places, it is right and OK to want to take time off relationships. If that is why you are single, that actually makes sense.

But if you have healed completely, and things that hurt you do not hurt anymore, it may be time to try again.

If you meet someone who seems like the real deal, maybe it’s time to actually let go and give love another try.

If you meet someone who seems like the real deal, maybe it’s time to actually let go and give love another try.

2. You are ready

For those who have been single forever and have really never been in any relationship before, all you need is a personal conviction and a feeling of readiness. Once you get the vibe and you feel ready to do it, then there’s nothing stopping you from dipping into the dating pool.

3. You meet someone who looks like the real deal

Opportunity may come more than once, but people don’t. So if you meet someone who seems like the real deal, if they treat you right and make promises that you feel good about, maybe it’s time to actually let go of your fears and give love a try.

There are no assurances, of course, but when a man or woman someone shows a reasonable amount of effort and commitment to being with you, maybe you should give them a chance and see where that road leads you to.

If your emotions a re sorted and under control, maybe venturing into a relationship doesn’t seem too far-fetched. [Credit: CISB]

If your emotions a re sorted and under control, maybe venturing into a relationship doesn’t seem too far-fetched. [Credit: CISB]

4. You know yourself perfectly

Ok, maybe not perfectly, but you understand yourself enough, love yourself enough and have become self-sufficient enough to involve someone else in the picture.

When your emotions are stable, your understanding of emotional intelligence is great and you’ve practically mastered taking care of yourself, maybe venturing into a relationship doesn’t seem too far-fetched.

5. You always say ‘God when’ on cute relationship posts on social media

If half your day and some nights are spent on checking out cute couples on social media and commenting ‘God when’ on numerous timelines, then maybe you should just get into a relationship already.

This post could really be God answering your question. The time may just be now.

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